Several years ago, as I was switching tv channels one day, I stumbled upon a young preacher by the name of Joel Osteen. It took no more than a few minutes to recognize that this man was a talented communicator. It struck me that his gift was the ability to present his ideas as story, with simple, compelling language, and with simple, compelling imagery. He delivered positive, uplifting, messages that could resonate with anyone – not only Christians.
He didn’t hit hard with theology, or ideology. Instead, he spoke to every man and every woman in ways that were meaningful because they were relevant – and he inspired hope.
His method was to take the lessons of the Bible and deliver them in ways that reached a contemporary audience, with anecdotes that had contemporary relevance. He was universal in message, delivery and reach.
As a communicator, I appreciated this man’s obvious gifts. I recognized, too, that the simplicity and positivity of his oration, and the hope he conveyed, filled a void on television – filled a hunger for inspiration.
One can find this hunger everywhere in our society today. There is too little in the news,or in film, or in our communities, where hope and encouragement thrive. One can sometimes get it on Oprah, or by watching Wayne Dyer on PBS. But it’s scarce.
I once had a friend who taught a workshop called “The Power of Acknowledgement.” His name was Michael Wyman. Michael passed away suddenly from an asthmatic attack, but he left an extraordinary legacy.
He taught that there is genuine, authentic power in acknowledging another human being; that there is greatness in every person – a light that shines within everyone – and when that greatness and light is acknowledged, transformation occurs. This transformation occurs for the giver and receiver both, for there is a great need in each of us to feel truly seen.
Authenticity is key in acknowledgement, for it is not about acknowledging the shallowness of the ego, but the authentic self – a person’s real gifts, and talents, and the true qualities of beingness.
In Michael’s workshop, as one acknowledged another, and received acknowledgement back from the receiver, the power of acknowledgement would spiral up – acknowledging life, acknowledging with gratitude all the gifts of love from others, and ultimately, acknowledging the Source of Life – acknowledging God.
Where is acknowledgement today? There is much too much disconnection, alienation and fragmentation. The word “communities” is sometimes a lie – for in these environments there is too often a lack of communication, and true communion. We see this absence too often amongst our children and among adolescents. We shouldn’t wonder about the proliferation of drugs and alcohol, of obesity, and sometimes violence. It’s so much about the hunger for acknowledgement, the need to feel seen, the need to express and that someone is listening.
There needs to be more inspiration, positivity and encouragement on television, on radio, in film and on the Internet. People will gravitate to wherever there is some sense of energy and aliveness, but too often they are manipulated to move towards programming of a lower order of consciousness – and this is the cruel choice of programmers who have not had the courage to rise above the dispiriting, and the shadow side of human nature.
“Positive thinking” is a choice. The reality of the way the mind works is that we can feed it negativity, allow it to be victimized by stray and rampant negative thoughts, or buy into others’ negativity by giving them that power – or we can choose to impress upon our minds positive, hopeful thoughts and ideas. The truth is that the Universe listens to what we put out – and gives back what we transmit. How often is that taught in our elementary and high schools or in our colleges?
We in communications, especially those of us who work with the media, whether in journalism, public relations, advertising, programming or production, need to take greater responsibility in influencing programming choices. We have choice in this, which includes the choice to do nothing.
It isn’t only, as McLuhan said, that the medium is the message, but that the medium and its messages are also powerful imprinters on the human psyche. In this context, the medium of television, or radio, not only transmits programming; they are also by their very nature in the business of programming minds. They are, therefore, decisive activators and determinants in the condition of human consciousness and human behavior.
The work, I think, is not to preclude other forms of programming of a more negative kind, but to push for what upholds, encourages and inspires life. Ultimately, the latter can neutralize the former.
This said, we must guard against censorship, or to create a phony positivism that controls our beliefs and imposes dogma or a particular view on others instead of a wide range of creative, uplifting content…content that encourages human development and enriching human communities.
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